How to Talk About Everything Related to Sex with Children
- Ami Sakar
- Aug 8
- 2 min read
How to Talk About Everything Related to Sex with Children
A thoughtful guide to opening conversations that matter most — with honesty, care, and confidence.
Why This Conversation Matters
From the moment a child begins to speak, they begin to question. Some questions are playful, others are surprisingly deep — and sooner or later, they’ll touch on topics about the body, relationships, and where they come from. If parents don’t answer, someone else will. That “someone else” could be peers, the internet, or media — sources that might provide half-truths, sensationalized ideas, or harmful messages.
Children who grow up without accurate, caring guidance can feel confusion or shame about natural topics, making them vulnerable to misinformation and unhealthy influences. By creating an environment where these topics are discussed openly and respectfully, we give our children the confidence to come to us — their safe, trusted source — instead of seeking answers elsewhere.
The Art of Age-Appropriate Dialogue
The conversation about sexual education isn’t a one-time talk — it’s an ongoing dialogue that grows as your child grows.
Start early: Introduce correct names for body parts and the concept of personal space in simple, clear language.
Build gradually: As they mature, add layers — teaching about privacy, respect, relationships, and emotional awareness.
Listen actively: Let their questions guide you, and never dismiss or shame their curiosity.
Empower them: Help them recognize their right to say no, to set boundaries, and to speak up if something feels wrong.
These moments aren’t just about information — they’re about building trust. Every conversation is a thread, weaving a connection that says: You can come to me with anything.
A Resource That Supports You
While every family’s approach will be unique, How to Talk About Everything Related to Sex with Children by Dr. Heba Jamal Hariri provides a compassionate, structured guide for parents and educators who want to navigate this topic with clarity and confidence.The book covers six key areas — from foundational principles and understanding developmental stages to protecting children from abuse and guiding them through adolescence. It uses clear, respectful language and thoughtful illustrations, making complex topics easier to approach without losing cultural sensitivity or scientific accuracy.
It’s not about giving you all the answers — it’s about helping you have the conversations that shape your child’s sense of self, safety, and belonging.
